3 Steps To Get Out Of Your Own Way & Create Your Business
I'm guessing you have big dreams and goals and know you want to do amazing things with your life but right now you just don't know how to make it happen.
Maybe this was the year you hoped to leave the corporate world behind and create the life and business on your terms but it just hasn't happened?
When we are truly honest there is only one thing that is stopping us from having the life and business we desire.
OURSELVES.
We fear failure, we fear not making enough, we fear criticism, we fear investing and not making the money back, we fear not making the impact we desire.
And as a result, we delay our dreams. We put them on "someday isle". Even though we know that someday doesn't exist.
Well it's time to screw someday!
If your year has not gone how you expected so far, if your business is still existing on "Someday Isle" only, then it's time to change that now. Instead of someday how about NOW?
How about getting moving TODAY .
How about getting off the sidelines, saying goodbye to the corporate negativity and creating a life on your own terms instead?
If you haven't seen my free Livestream training from yesterday, then you can view it in the group. It's designed to kick start your year
I'm super passionate about helping women create a life and business on their own terms because for so long, I took the safe, overly travelled route and did what others did.
I spent year after year commuting to a job that didn't fulfil me and sat at my desk year after year in this soul soul-sucking environment. Every day like groundhog day. Because that was all I knew.
Working in corporate recruitment was soul sucking, draining and exhausting but I lacked the courage and the vision to do anything about it, I was so stuck for so long.
I wanted to be my own boss, make an impact and do work i loved but I just couldn't envision it for myself.
Maybe you can relate ?
Once I opened myself up to the opportunities, realised that what I wanted was possible for me, took bold decisions to make it happen things changed.
I got clear on my mission and message, on my ideal client and created packages that served them that was when things started to shift big time.
I invested in upleveling my mindset, my systems and did the work DAILY.
No excuses.
I continued to add to my learnings. Studying social media, copywriting and implementing the right systems and structures to create automation in my business and building a profitable business.
Sometimes you need to get out of your comfort zone and do what others won't do so that you can have what others don't have.
Freedom, flexibility and fulfilment.
If you are still stuck, here are 3 quick tips to help you get out of your own way.
1. Master Your Mindset
Fundamentally having the right mindset is crucial to your success. I'm sure you've heard the famous quote "whether you think you can or think you can't you're right and this is so true".
This means utmost faith in your ability but also shifting the scarcity mindset (there is so much competition, there is not enough money, who will pay me) to an abundance mindset (the right clients are out there for me, there is so much wealth and abundance in the world, people will pay when the product adds value).
Focus on adding value to your ideal clients. Let them know that you are there for them and keep showing up. Your ideal clients want to know that you will be there for them when they are ready to buy.
Ways to Do this: Read Inspiring Books daily
(Think & Grow Rich by Napolean Hill, - get it here)
( The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D Wattles - get it here)
for shifting from scarcity to abundance).
Meditate daily. This is one of my favourite daily meditations for abundance
Show up consistently: I love my clients, I love the work I do and I love helping and adding value to the women who are stuck where I was.
I can't NOT do this work. Allow your passion to ooze out of every pore. Your audience will sense it.
2. Get to the bottom of your excuses.
We can make excuses all day long as to why something won't work for us. These excuses are really our fears and limiting beliefs getting into action trying to protect us from failure and keep us safe.
Whilst sometimes fear can serve us, when it comes to our business it's often misplaced. The only thing it does is keeps us stuck and playing small.
The next time you find yourself making excuses, identify where it is coming from. Ask yourself "what's really going on here"?. Is the excuse really well founded (most of the time this is a no) and then take action ANYWAY.
Nothing great ever came from listening to excuses. The fact that you are here and reading this means that you are meant to create a life of a richer and bolder kind. Step into the person who goes after THAT not the woman who makes excuses.
JOURNALING PROMPT: IF I WAS NOT ALLOWING FEAR OF FAILURE AND JUDGEMENT STOP ME FROM GOING AFTER MY DESIRES, WHAT WOULD I BE DOING NOW?
And then take those steps.
3. Make it Happen
Building a business may feel scary and tough and we may not achieve the success we want overnight but if you don't take action you will NEVER get to where you want to be.
It is possible for you create a business that you love, doing work that lights you up, helping incredible women and being of SERVICE. And it's possible sooner than you might think.
I know this because this is what I've created for myself.
Despite initially pursuing 2 business ideas that weren't right for me, I found my passion and purpose. That would never have happened if I had been too scared to do ANYTHING.
I took relentless focused action, invested in learning, took action and had the courage to pivot so that I could create my thing.
I was determined to make it work and it did.
This is what happens when you are relentless in the pursuit of the life you desire.
If you’re ready to overcome your fears and mindset blocks and create your dream business, then go ahead and join my free Facebook Community for free resources, training and sisterhood and support on your business journey.
Carve out some to watch it, work through the Workbook and then take action.
There might be many obstacles on the way to your dream business. Just make sure you are not one of them.
Hey, I'm Tasmin! I'm a Mindset & Business Confidence Coach for new and aspiring female entrepreneurs. I help overcome their fears and ramp up their confidence so that they can escape the corporate drudgery and create a life and business on their terms.
Want to chat about how I can help you? Apply for a Free Session with me here. I'm excited to talk to you :-)
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